"Absolutely, we should celebrate motherhood. The fifth commandment establishes parenthood as a holy calling. But, it also makes good sense to acknowledge "cultural rhythms"- like certain secular holidays- liturgically, to recognize there is no place God isn't."There is the moderate view of author and pastor Trevin Wax (Click on his link to read his post about Mother's Day),
"We shold want to honor mothers. But because this has become a consumerist holiday (like Valentine's Day), we should consider deeper issues about how we order our time and make sure we aren't simply catering to the whims of our consumerist culture."Author Caryn Rivadeneira says,
"It's great to acknowledge it. But there is the 'cult of the family,' where motherhood tends to get so elevated in churches that it's above all else. Sometimes that's the knee-jerk treatment, to make it the highest and holiest of callings for women. That's a problem."Finally, the view of William Willimon, Bishop in the United Methodist Church,
"One of the biggest threats to theology today is not fundamentalism; it's sentimentalism. Mother's Day apppears just another occasion to say, "Christianity is feeling something mushy in your heart." We all get sentimental about our mothers."
From the standpoint of the Church, I wonder if maybe we make too big of a deal out of Mother's Day. Certainly, I am thankful for my mother and all that she did for me. I am amazed by my wife, Andrea, in how she is a great mother. Looking around the church and our communities, Mother's Day can be a day of sorrow and loneliness too.
- I spoke with a seminary classmate- who is studying for an M.Div. and a leader in the church. She told me last week that she experienced four late term miscarriages and was never able to have children. As a Christian leader- she said it was extremely difficult to attend worship on Mother's Day.
- As I looked around Church on Sunday- there are other women who are unable to have children- or maybe never married- or lost their children through some tragedy. I wonder as we elevate the role of mother in our churches if that feels like a slap in the face to those without children.
- I'm curious how Mother's Day feels for a child of any age whose Mother was a lousy example of a mother. Maybe she was abusive or detatched emotionally. Mother's Day then causes the child to think about what he/she never had in a mother.
- When it comes to worship, many Mother's Day sermon become speeches about the virtues of motherhood rather than a proclamation of the Good News of Jesus. Many Mother's Day sermon could be given at a civic organization without offending anyone because the emphasis is on mother's rather than God's redemptive work through Jesus Christ.
How does your church celebrate/recognize Mother's Day? Do we make too big of a deal about it? Not big enough? Talk it out in the comments below!