Tuesday, April 28, 2009

Can I Get Some Air Conditioning?

I am bogged down with the end of the semester at seminary. I've thought about posting several times, but then I realize I have a lot of work to do. So, I will briefly post some updates.

  • On April 18 and 19, we welcomed Lucas and Jody Parry to our home and church. Lucas has an amazing ministry using media and music to call people to do their part to end poverty around the world. You should definately check out Lucas' websites and his ministry! Go to www.lucasparry.com or www.thegoconcert.com
  • Andrea, Abbie and myself went to Baltimore for a few days away. We had a great time hanging out together as a family. We went to the aquarium and the zoo. While it was too short, it was a nice time away.
  • Andrea went on a women's retreat this past weekend, which meant that Abbie and I were home together all weekend. What an amazing time having fun together. We played and laughed the entire weekend. If I learned nothing else, I learned that I could care for Abbie if something happened to Andrea...at least until Abbie hits puberty! (I hope I never have to be in that situation though!)
  • I drove to Philly today for school and it was near 90 degrees. I am starting my second summer with no air conditioning in my car. It was a hot, sweaty ride up.
  • I only have two weeks of school left this semester. I am so thankful for that.

Tuesday, April 07, 2009

Seven Pounds for Holy Week




This past Sunday, Andrea and I watched the Will Smith movie, "Seven Pounds," while Abbie took her afternoon nap. It wasn't a movie I particularly wanted to watch, but I was intrigued by it's storyine, especially since we are in the midst of Holy Week leading up to Easter.

**Stop reading here if you've not seen the movie**

The basic premise of Seven Pounds is this: Will Smith's character (Ben/Tim) was part of an accident that killed seven people, including his fiance. Ben feels responsible for the accident and is living with the guilt he feels. He begins to offer random people gifts that only he can give. To one woman, a social worker, he gives part of his liver. To someone else, a lung. He gives a mother and 2 children his beachfront home as they begin a new life together after escaping an abusive boyfriend.

Ben meets a woman named Emily who has Congestive Heart Failure. She has been placed on an organ donor list, but because of her rare blood type, the docter tells Ben there is only a 3-5% chance that she will receive the heart in time. As Ben begins helping her out in little ways and they end up falling in love with each other. At the same time, Ben contacts a man named Ezra who is blind, yet gifted at the piano and stuck in a deadend job. It is here that we begin to see Ben's intentions.

The gift that Ben gives requires that he give up his own life. Ben ultimately commits suicide in a way that his organs can be harvested and Emily and Ezra are given a new lease on life. The movie ends with Emily staring into Ezra's eyes, knowing that they are they eyes of the man she loves and the of the one who gave up his life so the she might live.

This was, again, and interesting movie to watch as we prepare to celebrate Good Friday and Easter...where God sent His Son Jesus into the world to die so that we might live. It is certainly a fresh way to look at the idea of giving up one's life so that others might live. Jesus said in John 15:13 that, "Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends. 1 John 3:16 says, "This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers." It is very clear in the movie that Ben was moved towards love to give his heart to Emily.

I wonder what initially motivated Will Smith's character to give himself away as a gift? Was it out of shame or guilt from feeling responsible for his fiance's and 6 others' death?

I believe that he was seeking penance what happened the night of the accident. Penance is, as Webster's puts it, an act of self-abasement, mortification, or devotion performed to show sorrow or repentance for sin. Will Smith's character's action resulted in the death of seven people...and his character gave the gift of life to seven people as an act of penance. While this act may have began out of guilt, by the end of the movie he is motivated by love.

While this is not a exhaustive look at the movie Seven Pounds, this may create some great discussion for you and those you watch the movie with. This is certainly a postmodern parable that we can relate to the self-giving love of Jesus Christ. If you've not seen the movie, this is a great week to rent it and watch it as we consider the sacrifice that Jesus made for each of us so that we might experience life abundant!

Friday, April 03, 2009

The Trouble With Twitter

I do not understand our cultural fascination with Twitter. It's essentially Facebook without all the other tools/apps/features. I have tried Twitter and think it basically a worthless pursuit at this point. With Twitter, you can leave brief thoughts/sentences to let people how are following you know what you are up to and what you are thinking. (I believe that's called a "status update" in facebook-land.) I know some people who follow certain people religiously on Twitter because they are quasi-celebrity or something. The problem with this, is that you get all sorts of useless thoughts from people who use Twitter on their phone. Like

-I'm stuck in traffic.
-Just went to the bathroom...don't remember eating that.
-Considering what I should do right now.
-I just updated my twitter
-I like yellow snow
-On the subway...the guy besides me smells

When it gets down to it, we've allowed Twitter, Facebook, and MySpace to replace real, meaningful relationships. Take my Facebook account...I have 466 friends. But I am guessing that out of those 466 "friends" that I personally relate to about 10-15 on a regular basis. We live in our society that feels less and less connected relationally, even as we have more communication tools than ever at our fingertips. Real relationships take more than a wall comment, twitter update, or a text message. They must be balance with real human interaction.

I saw this video about Twitter the other day and thought it was right on.



So whether you Twitt or Tweet, reach out and touch someone today with a meaningful conversation, or just a phone call to say hello. Now I've got to go and change my status update.